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spacetiger-bonsai:

go ahead …make my day

(Source: ayoson, via kawaiijamaican)

hazeleyed1:

youngblackandvegan:

i have never been comfortable with men buying me things

my mom told me nothing in life is free

and as a result i’ve always felt like if a guy gets me something he will expect something in return

like if he buys me dinner he will expect sex

or if he buys me a gift he will expect sex

or if he takes me to the movies he will expect sex

so i tend to want to split the check or pay for my own things

this is not to say guys haven’t paid for me or bought me things

i just have friends that expect a guy to shower them with gifts or who get offended if they don’t pay for their date

i’m just saying

i’ve never been comfortable with it

a lot of people see it as being polite or providing for me

but i don’t need a guy to buy me things so i’ve never wanted it

and i’d rather we go dutch. split it equally. no one person owes another

idk. is this weird?

I don’t think it’s weird. I’m the same way.

I’ve in situations where I want to split a bill at dinner but the men for I’ve dated for the most part insisted on paying.

I hate it when guys REFUSE to let me pay. It’s weird. 

(via blackbutrfly)

the color of low self esteem

miguu:

what i never
learned
from my mother
was that
just because someone desires you
does
not mean they value you.
desire is the kind of thing that
eats you
and
leaves you starving.

(via thefuckshitmagnet)

thefuckshitmagnet asked: you been wearing that hoodie for a good long minute now... it must be full of your pheromones... g'on ship that bitch to me, so I can pet it in my sleep.

X_______X 

REBLOG IF ITS OKAY IF I PUT SOMETHING FUCKING WEIRD AS FUCK IN YOUR INBOX

(Source: feelmybutt, via thefuckshitmagnet)

I never told y’all about the time a woman of color (Afro-Latina in DR) tried to explain/justify a man “hollerin’” at a woman on the street by explaining to me how she met her husband that way. That it’s a “legitimate” way that people meet and fall in love.

notesonascandal:

So I asked her “How old were you when you met your husband?”

She says “I was 14 and he was 19.”

I couldn’t say another motherfuckin’ thing. I just left that shit right there. Nobody else could speak either.

 I never took this woman to be very bright at all, but that pretty much solidified it for me.