I will never understand why black men are the first ones to throw black women under the bus.
I’m starting to think that black men have more hate for black women than anybody else does and most of them aren’t even shy about it. All it takes it for her skin to be a little “too” dark, her hair a little “too” kinky, her attitude a little “too” outspoken and its from “my beautiful african kween :)” to “black girls aint shit.”
Every time there is some bullshit being said about black women I can promise you you can find black men in the center of it all just running with it. Like they’re not talking about their mothers. Their sisters. And eventually their own daughters.
I wonder when everyone will realize that when people say “black girls”: they mean ALL black girls, every single last one, because thats the thing about being black in america— all it takes is for one to do a thing and everybody else gets painted with the same brush until proven otherwise— then you’re the “Exception”.
As if individuality and autonomy are secret pokemon moves black people cant learn without cheats and hacks.
The way a black man talks about black women is a very good indicator of how he feels about himself. I have literally seen men dark as Akon’s asshole go “I dont fuck with dark girls, I want a yellowbone.”
I could say more but I’m just going to leave it at that.